Thrive In Your Uniqueness.
Enjoy Human Interaction Without Burning Out.
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Individual Coaching
Many of the people I work with were identified autistic later in life, are self-identified or suspect autism. For years, they masked, adapted, and pushed through, thinking their social struggles were personal flaws.
While not realizing they were actually signs of unmet needs.
Unlike those identified as children, they didn’t grow up with the right language, support, or tools to make sense of their experiences.
That’s where I come in.
I help late identified autistic adults turn confusion and exhaustion into clarity and confidence without masking, overthinking, or losing yourself in the process.
Our coaching empowers you to build relationships that reflect your true self.
This is for you if…
⏺️ Feel misunderstood or like you're “too much” or “not enough”
⏺️ Get exhausted after everyday conversations
⏺️ Not know what to say or how to keep a conversation going
⏺️ Avoid social situations to protect your peace but still crave connection
⏺️ Hide parts of yourself just to be accepted
I can help you…
⏺️ Build social confidence without pretending to be someone you’re not
⏺️ Navigate conversations with clarity, ease, and less overthinking
⏺️ Connect with people who genuinely get you
⏺️ Set boundaries without guilt or confusion
⏺️ Feel energized, not drained, after being social
Get the support you need now!
❌ You don’t have to keep guessing.
❌ You don’t have to keep hiding.
❌ You don’t have to do it alone.
⬇️ Discover what it could look like to connect without masking. ⬇️
In your 30s and 40s, the stakes get real.
In Personal Relationships
You might say, “I’m fine being on my own.”
Sure, until you’re not.
Maybe you like your space.
Maybe you’ve always been more of an observer than a joiner.
Maybe people have let you down before, so solitude feels safer.
And that’s valid.
But being a loner often comes with quiet costs no one talks about:
⇒ You’re always the one taking care of yourself - even in emergencies.
⇒ You celebrate wins alone, quietly, without anyone who truly gets what it means.
⇒ You talk yourself out of asking for help because "you’ve handled worse."
⇒ You carry every emotion, every decision, every shift in life — by yourself.
⇒ You convince yourself you prefer isolation when what you actually fear is being misunderstood.
You don’t have to trade your independence to build meaningful relationships.
You can be authentic.
You can be you.
You can have support instead of being alone when it matters.
What would it mean for you to build the kind of relationships where trust, loyalty, and care are the minimum?
In Professional Relationships
"You’re not there to make friends, you’re there to collect a paycheck."
You get along fine with your coworkers but you’re just “not that close”.
You don’t bother trying to build relationships (or maybe you don’t know how).
Instead, you get busy performing.
Grinding.
Meeting deadlines.
Keeping up appearances while quietly carrying stress no one asks about.
Then life happens —
You lose your job.
You get promoted but feel isolated.
You need to vent about a toxic dynamic…
And you realize:
You don’t actually have anyone to call who understands.
⇒ Who’s advocating for you behind closed doors when promotions are discussed?
⇒ Who can you safely talk to when your manager crosses a line?
⇒ Who’s helping you navigate burnout or imposter syndrome — not with a podcast link, but a real conversation?
⇒ Who's sending you job leads, not just “thoughts and prayers,” when you get laid off?
⇒ Who sees your silence in meetings and asks how you're really doing?
These are the moments that expose the truth.
You don’t just need people to sit next to in meetings.
You need people who know you beyond your title.
People you can trust.
People who support your growth.
People who show up when things get hard.
Don’t wait for a crisis to realize your professional network is just a contact list.
In Business Relationships
“Networking is my personal hell.”
You can handle clients, contracts, and crises but small talk? That’s another story.
You’ve built a business by being competent, not connected.
You keep your head down, do great work, and hope people notice.
But when business slows down or
when a project falls through,
when you need a referral,
when you hit burnout…
You realize you’ve been building alone.
⇒ Who understands your communication style and respects your boundaries?
⇒ Who can you brainstorm with without masking?
⇒ Who reminds you that your work is valuable when self-doubt creeps in?
⇒ Who checks in, not just to “collab,” but to see if you’re okay?
These are the moments business owners need but they don’t take time to create.
You don’t just need clients and contracts.
You need community.
People who get your brain.
People who celebrate your wins without expecting you to change.
People who help you grow your business without losing yourself.
Don’t wait for burnout to realize you built a brand but not a network.
⬇️ Build the kind of support that actually shows up. ⬇️
The Coaching Process
Chances are someone told you to “just be yourself.”
But they left out the hard part.
They didn’t tell you about how you’ll be misunderstood, rejected and dismissed.
They don’t know that you’ve been masking so long that you don’t know how.
They expected you to just “figure it out.”
That’s not how our brains work.
We need specific actionable steps.
You’ve tried to “figure it out” and it’s not working.
It’s time to try something different.
As your coach, I’ll offer clear, real-world strategies instead of vague advice on where to meet your people, how to hold conversations that don’t feel forced, and how to step away from connections that drain you.
I’ll share lessons from my own journey to show you what’s possible.
You’ll learn new skills:
🔹how to start a conversation without overthinking,
🔹how to ask to meet again without second-guessing,
🔹and how to spot red flags early… before you get attached.
With me, you’ll establish boundaries without fear so that you can protect your energy.
You won’t learn how to become someone else.
You will discover how to finally feel safe enough to be yourself and still be connected.
Not Sure if This Is Right for You?
I get it. Coaching is a big decision.
You don’t want to waste time, money, or energy on something that might not work.
That’s why I offer this:
✅ “Coach Until You Succeed” Promise
If by Week 12 you have fully participated but have not achieved your core goals, Coach Lee will continue coaching at no additional cost until meaningful progress is reached.
No pressure. No shame. Just a real commitment to your growth.
I’m not here to sell you sessions.
I’m here to help you build the kind of relationships you’ve been hoping for.
Curious what real connection could feel like?
Book your complimentary 30-minute Clarity Session
No pressure. Just a real conversation about what’s keeping you stuck and how we can change that.
Frequently Asked Questions
Real connection isn’t out of reach.
But most people were never taught how to build it.
If you've blamed yourself for struggling to make friends or find people who truly get you, you're not alone.
The truth is that meaningful connection isn’t about trying harder or being more likable.
That’s why I created a coaching program built specifically for people who feel out of sync socially — people like us.
After 15+ years of trial, error, and lived experience, I’ve developed a process that helps late-diagnosed autistic adults (and thoughtful loners) build the kind of support that doesn’t require masking, small talk, or social burnout.
Imagine spending time with people who understand your quirks, share your interests, and value your perspective.
Imagine feeling safe being fully yourself without overthinking, no second-guessing.
That’s not just possible.
It’s closer than you think.
If you're ready to stop guessing and start connecting, I invite you to a complimentary clarity session.
Let’s build the relationships you’ve always deserved.
⬇️ Schedule your complimentary clarity session.
Try it risk-free. Let’s see what’s possible for you.
